The Cost of Saying Yes

The Cost of Saying Yes

August 02, 20263 min read

Have you ever noticed that whenever God calls someone in Scripture, He rarely tells them the entire journey? He simply asks for one step.

Abraham was asked to leave his homeland.

Moses was asked to return to Egypt.

Esther was asked to approach the king.

Peter was asked to step out of the boat.

None of them knew everything that would happen after they said yes. Yet every one of them discovered something remarkable:

God's faithfulness is always greater than our fear. Sometimes we hesitate because we're focused on what we might lose. God invites us to focus on what He wants to accomplish through our obedience.

Every Calling Has a Cost

We often celebrate the blessings that come from following Christ. But Scripture is equally honest about the cost. Saying yes to God may require...

Comfort.

Convenience.

Time.

Energy.

Patience.

Sometimes even misunderstanding from others. Mentorship is no different. Walking beside another woman requires intentionality.

It requires listening when you're tired.

Praying when your schedule is full.

Showing up consistently.

Choosing faithfulness over convenience.

But here's the beautiful truth:

Anything we surrender to God becomes an opportunity for Him to multiply.

Jesus Never Called Comfortable Disciples

When Jesus invited His disciples to follow Him, He didn't promise an easy road. He promised His presence. There is a tremendous difference.

Our culture often pursues comfort.

The Kingdom pursues obedience.

Comfort asks,

"What's easiest?"

Faith asks,

"What honors God?"

Mentorship is not always convenient. But it is deeply meaningful. Every prayer offered. Every encouraging conversation. Every tear shared. Every Scripture opened together. These moments become eternal investments.

What We Gain Is Greater Than What We Give

When we hear the word sacrifice, we often think about loss. But God sees something different. He sees transformation.

The woman you encourage grows stronger.

Your own faith deepens.

Your compassion expands.

Your dependence on Christ increases.

Your life begins leaving fingerprints on eternity.

Yes, following God's calling requires something from us. But it also gives us something we could never create on our own: The joy of participating in His work.

Life Application

This week, ask yourself: What has fear been asking me to protect?

Then ask another question: What is faith inviting me to surrender?

There is freedom on the other side of obedience.

Reflection Questions

  1. What has God been asking you to trust Him with?

  2. What fears have delayed your obedience?

  3. How has God proven His faithfulness in previous seasons?

  4. What would your "yes" make possible for someone else?

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for always walking with me wherever You call me. Forgive me for the times I've allowed fear to speak louder than faith. Help me trust that Your plans are always better than my comfort. Teach me to surrender my time, my gifts, and my heart completely to You.

May my obedience bring glory to Your name and hope to those You place in my path. In Jesus' name, amen.

From My Heart to Yours

Some of the greatest blessings in my life began with a prayer that sounded like this: "Lord, I don't know exactly where You're leading, but I trust You." Looking back, I have never regretted a single step of obedience. God has always been faithful, even when the path wasn't easy. If He's calling you, trust that He will also sustain you.

Dr. Deidre Proctor

This Week's Challenge

Take one step you've been postponing because of fear. It may be making a phone call. Inviting someone to coffee. Beginning a Bible study. Offering encouragement.

Whatever God has placed on your heart...Take the next faithful step.

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Deidre Proctor

Deidre Proctor

Deidre Proctor, CEO, Author, Speaker, Mentor, International Certified Faith-Based Leadership Coach. Please note, this page may contain affiliate links. If you click on an affiliate link I may earn a small commission for any purchases that you make. This will not incur additional cost to you. www.deidreproctor.com [email protected]

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